谢里·阿尔戈(Sherry Argov)，美国加利福尼亚地区著名的电台主持人、福克斯新闻频道(Fox News Chan-nel)撰稿人。文章经常发表在《时尚》(Cosmopolitan)、《魅力》(Glamour)、《花花公子》(Playboy)，以及《君子》(Esquire)等众多时尚杂志上。在国内的著作有《坏女人有人爱》。

1.Men are intrigued by anything they do not completly control.

2.Men don't respond to words. What they respond to is no contact.

3.The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.

4.When a man meets a woman who seems too perfect, too sweet, or too agreeable, he tends to become bored very quickly.

5.Men tend to fall in love when they feel like they are cherished or revered as the 'man' in the relationship.

6.Everybody has fallen down or been disappointed in love. Where you truly shine is when you get back up.

7.There is a fundamental difference between men and women - women need romance, men need intrigue.

8.Men secretly respect a woman who is strong, has confidence and has dreams of her own. There's nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.

9.When you live life with him or without him, that is when he will accept and value you for who you are.

10.When you meet someone who is truly great, he makes you believe you can be great, too. This is the kind of relationship you want, and it's the only kind of relationship worth having.

11.Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.

12.Whenever you are too worried about someone else's approval, that person loses respect for you.

13.Bending over backwards does not bring you the love and attention you crave, but having your own life, your own goals and a backbone will.

14.Once you start laughing, you start healing.-Sherry Argov